Hi @Carole. The templates that you create under Setup > Message Templates > My Templates can be used for Inquiry Responders and Stay Emails but not for Transactional Emails.
For Inquiry Responders, you can choose a template under “Send This Template”
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For stay emails, you can choose a template under “What Template Do You Want to Send?”
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For Transactional Emails, you jump straight into editing the MyVR default template
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Finally, here is a good overview of how our automated emails work.
Cheers,
Danny